come to terms

The phrase "come to terms" refers to the process of accepting or reconciling with a difficult or challenging situation, reality, or truth. It suggests making peace with a particular circumstance, often after a period of struggle, resistance, or denial. Coming to terms involves acknowledging and understanding the situation as it is, rather than as one might wish it to be. It may also involve finding a way to cope, adapt, and move forward despite the challenges or negative emotions attached to the situation.